The Changes in Your Thoughts That Will Help You Thrive

You need to be patient to get Long Term Benefit

People always want the instant benefit, but there are a few people who want to achieve something making the long term plan and wait for better result. Though long term targets make profit slowly, but it stays longer than short term instant benefit.

It’s surprising that people never calculate their benefit having fun or entertaining themselves. But when it is matter of something good to learn, then they start the calculation unnecessarily making so many excuses & wastes so many times. That’s really so bad.

When I’ve decided to write something for my blog or for any other platforms, I never thought about how I’ll be benefited from writing these contents or articles. I just loved to write independently about so many things I’ve experienced and learned in my life.

I was really happy to express my thoughts in my own way & I also learned many things from the posts written by Razib Ahmed (Founder of E-CAB) sir about his life and others life who became hero from zero. All of his writings inspire me and give me lots of strength. Just spending only few minutes of time I get lots of lessons, which will help me running successfully towards my long term goals.

And now I take the initiative to write these contents in English thinking about benefitting myself in many ways like improving English writing skill. I think it will grow up my confidence level, free hand writing skill & reduce all my fears towards English.

And also it gives me the opportunity sharing my thoughts, reaching too many people outside my country and spreading our cultures, traditions and many more worldwide.

So let’s just practice regularly skipping all the negative thoughts & focus on improving own self day by day.

You Need to be Regular

Only regularity can make us boss in anything. We shouldn’t left today’s work for tomorrow. Being regular on our daily activities can bring us lots of good things. And the benefits of being regular can lead us to a great success which we never imagined.

Our main problem is that we can’t develop the mentality of sticking with the work for a long time regularly with patience. Sometimes when I feel interested to anything I start to research/practice about that with too much effort, but after some days I lost my all interest suddenly.

That’s why there are so many unfinished works, I left behind, on which I could be an expert if I would be able to maintain regularity. I got depressed sometimes because of this foolishness.

But nowadays I promised with myself to become a regular person in every part of my Daily actions and I won’t stop before finishing my targets & getting desired success. More I am being regular, more it makes me confident than before. I want to be an expert to lead my ways on the right track.

Don’t be Depressed

Life is really too much complicated. I’ve made many mistakes trying to match the equation of life, and I feel disappointed again and again for that. I sat there for hours in a daze, cried, and blamed my fate for why this and that only happens to me all over again! That time I was really stupid. Day after day I’ve just given the opportunity to become a frozen mountain in despair. Just thought that I didn’t feel good, Didn’t get what I wanted, didn’t get the way I wanted to see me in my life, so I’m frustrated, and now I’ll just sit back and do nothing!!

Is it the solution!! Of course not!! It’s only increased the intensity of suffering, nothing more.

Now I really feel surprised to see my alteration, I am constantly mounting myself, my thoughts. Investing time for improving my intellectual ability has become an addiction of mine. No matter what happen, I don’t get depressed or frustrated easily and I never stop working or practicing different things for a moment, I don’t even remember when I last cried. Because nowadays I’ve learned to cope up with my emotions. I am running with times, getting busy more and more; I’ve no time for any negative thoughts. And I am so happy for that.

Don’t Hesitate to Take Challenges

People always afraid to take the challenges & confused to start. But when we start any work, it could be said that more than 50% work has been done with starting. Our only barrier is we can’t believe on ourselves. If we are able to take the challenges confidently believing on our ability, then it increases the ratio of our success on that challenge.

I was not an exceptional one. Though I never feel fear to take challenge but I was so idle to start. Now I’ve changed too much and surprisingly I can’t even wait to take new challenges one by one. I’ve finished all the challenges I’ve given myself in recent years. That’s how all the changes happen & all the success comes to us.

Be Curious as much as Possible

Curiosity or interest helps us to go ahead, but disinterest Just keep us falling behind from others.

Actually my love and interest in writing motivated me to write blog in English also. And it’s true that the more I write, the more I’ll be interested. In the beginning, I felt hesitate to make up my mind taking this challenge of writing.

I was confused & questioned me over & over again,

“Can I really do that?” “Should I start now?”

But when I started, it was completely cut off all of my confusions and now I am enjoying the writing.

Always I love to express my thoughts through writing than talking. And I am successful to express this way properly in Bengali, now I want to share my thoughts through writing in English confidently.

Since I am a business Women and also a media activist representing my district, I’ve to have the ability to present all these things in fronts of many people confidently. My writing practice helps me to do so. I believe that in sha Allah one day I’ll be able to overcome all of my fear and shyness & I’ll present in front of hundreds or thousands of people in both English & Bengali language.